"my name is carolyn and i am a commuter student. when i am not at home with my 
boyfriend i am trying ot maintain that closeness through communication mediums 
with him because otherwise i feel very sad and alone here and i don't want to 
transition completely or i will lose him, i will have to break my bond with him. 

sometimes we fight but only when we are apart because the words become jumbled 
or my phone loses connetion and he becomes upset and i say "it's okay honey i'm 
walking through the library it's okay i just lost the conneciton"